Congratulations Kathy Cowley!
Email me at anwaevents at gmail dot com and I'll get that mailed out to you!
For the rest of us, here is some inspiration from the author of this week's giveaway, DeAnn Huff http://www.dogdenhuff.com/ :
Too often novice authors rely only on miscommunication between characters to create conflict in stories. Harlequin editor, Victoria Curran, reminded 2014 ANWA Conference attendees that our conflicts need to be strong enough so that one good conversation between the characters won’t resolve all their problems. But have you considered that your characters can be role models for others, especially children and youth? Have you thought about putting at least one character in your novel, perhaps a mentor or a sidekick, who is an example of a good communicator? We can teach light and truth one word at a time. Here are some characteristics of a good communicator:
Good communicators apologize when they make mistakes.
Good communicators resolve conflict without confrontation.
Good communicators speak positively and express gratitude.
Good communicators think before they speak.
Good listeners pay attention.
Good listeners don’t interrupt.
Good listeners don’t make judgmental generalizations.
By making one of your characters a good communicator, then the communication errors of your other characters will be more obvious. If the good communicator is a main character, then it will force you to create a conflict that can’t be simply resolved by the characters sitting down and having an honest conversation. Try good communication in your writing—and if not in your writing, try it in your real life!